What could our horse/dog/cat/ bird (or any other pet) possibly want when we give them a loving home, yummy food to eat, and plenty of toys to play with? As you may guess, the answer to that question varies with the type of animal and life he/she leads.Many pet owners I have met tell me that they believe their pets are "spoiled" and have pretty much everything they want. But, in my experience, the bottom line for any animal is unconditional love -- to give and to receive. What, then, does "unconditional love" really mean? With my professional background in Early Childhood Education, I have learned that fulfilling children's needs are based on love through respect and understanding. It is no different for animals! You may wonder, how would we give respect and understanding to our animals--they don't know what that means! Guess what? They certainly do! Animals of all kinds are highly intuitive and "get" so much more than many people might imagine.
What about the family dog who starts "looking depressed" when the suitcases come out for an upcoming vacation? Or what about the cat who suddenly stops using the litter box when a new pet is brought into the home? Has anyone thought to tell their pet about the changes taking place in the home? Usually--no. I strongly urge my clients to keep their pets informed and "in the loop" about what's happening in their homes. Just like any other family member, it's important to let your pets in on what events will be taking place, who's coming or going, etc., and that they are a valued member of the household. Acknowledgment can be so powerful--even to the animals.
Talk to your pets! Tell them your plans! Believe me, it matters!
